Sunday, January 5, 2014

3 Tricks For Making A Guy Attracted To You

3 Tricks For Making A Guy Attracted To You

By Sasha H. Peterson


Have you found a really cute guy that you're interested in? Do you wish that he would make the first move? Do you want to get his attention but you don't want to be too pushy? How can you get the attention of the man you're interested in especially if he has a lot of women that are interested in him?

Even though it is acceptable in this day and age to ask a guy out on a date, you might not want to do this. For many men, this is a turn off. It very well might spell certain death to your potential relationship if he is the kind of man that wants to feel like a man. Even though it's not a problem for many men, you still might want him to make the first move. This puts the power in your hands and even though you may have led him to this decision in some subtle ways, it will still be his idea that the two of you spend some quality time together.

Not matter what, try to be true to yourself at all times. If you've done any research on him and you know a few things about him, resist the temptation to like the things that you know he likes. Try not to be someone that you're not. We all like honesty and it's much less confusing if things do work out if you haven't misrepresented yourself in any way. There's nothing wrong with you. You are lovable just as you are. If he likes football and you can't stand the sport just tell him that it's not your thing. If you like he's going to know it and you'll look like a fool instead of someone that doesn't enjoy football. There's no shame in that.

As far as those delicate questions that you might want to plead the fifth amendment on, honesty is always the best policy. If you come from a poor family or if you've been divorced or if you didn't complete your university education, be honest about it or plead the fifth. It can be equally as embarrassing for him if he accidentally uncovers something unpleasant and he makes you feel uncomfortable. Your strength is in how you handle it. You are still a good person and worthy of being loved in spite of your past. Everybody makes mistakes and all of us have a skeleton or two in our closet. Be proud of yourself and love yourself and he will fall in love with you too. It's called self-confidence.

As you get to know each other and you start communicating, listen more and try to speak less. It doesn't matter if you're talking face to face, over the phone or exchanging text messages. Avoid the trap of being the one doing all the talking. While many men might be used to such one sided conversations, you want to appear different. In addition, you want to get to know him and bond with him. If you can ask him some good questions that lead to answers that require further details you can drill down into his life. If you are persistent enough and you allow a man the opportunity to talk, he will eventually feel safe enough with you to share his hopes, dreams and innermost thoughts. He will feel close to you and bond with you in a way that will make him feel like he has always known you.

Try to be as happy and optimistic as possible. Smile, laugh and be happy. While everyone has troubles in their life, avoid sounding negative at all cost. Women who are bubbly and vivacious are often the ones that you will see with many men chasing after them. There is a reason behind this. Men like to be around happy women. They're fun and nobody enjoys spending time with someone that is depressed or who complains about life. Even if you have something to complain about, laughing it off or being optimistic about the fact that things will make him look at you as strong and different from other women.

Flirting never goes out of style although it is quickly becoming a lost art. There's nothing wrong with flirting. It's not demeaning or fake. Flirting isn't going to backfire on you and it doesn't make you a weak woman. Effective flirting will be appreciated and he will get the message no matter how poorly you think you flirt. So, toss your hair every once in a while. Wink at him, touch his arm when you're talking and bat those eyelashes at him as you peer up at him from behind a lock of your hair. Flirting still works and it is probably the most powerful non-verbal form of communication that you have at your disposal if you are trying to attract that special guys.

Getting a guy's attention is easy. Keeping him interested is a whole different story. What you have learned here can and will make any man understand that you are interested in him. He will know that you find him attractive and he will want to get to know you better. You can test these tricks out starting right now if you want to. A walk around the shopping mall should find you some likely volunteers and don't be surprised if you get asked for your number. Once you feel confident, try these methods out on the man of your dreams and let him sweep you off your feet.




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